Lip Tie in Babies and Toddlers: Recognizing Symptoms, Debunking Myths

When Feeding Becomes a Frustration

As a mom and a pediatric dentist, I understand the anxiety and sheer exhaustion that comes with parenting a fussy eater. When your sweet baby struggles with feeding, whether they are fighting the breast or the bottle, it can feel incredibly stressful. You worry about weight gain, discomfort, and why feeding sessions take so long. Sometimes, the root cause of these challenges is hidden in plain sight.

We see many parents in our Lafayette office who have been told that their child is just "colicky" or "lazy" when nursing. But often, the problem is physical, not behavioral. We are talking about lip tie in babies, a common congenital condition.

Lip ties involve restricted oral tissue that affects a baby’s ability to feed properly. Identifying and addressing these oral restrictions early can make a profound difference, significantly improving your child’s comfort and overall development. The good news is that a trained pediatric dentist can provide a quick, gentle assessment to determine if a lip tie is the culprit. Our goal is always to empower you with knowledge and provide solutions so you can enjoy those precious early months.

Understanding the Condition: What Exactly is a Lip Tie?

Let's dive into the specifics of what a lip tie is and why this seemingly small piece of tissue can create such big problems for your little one.

The Definition and Location

A lip tie is a condition that occurs when the frenulum, specifically the maxillary labial frenulum, is too tight, thick, or short. The frenulum is the piece of soft tissue that connects the center of your upper lip to the gum tissue, right above the two front teeth. The presence of this frenulum is completely normal.

A lip tie is diagnosed only when this tissue is too stiff or rigid, restricting the upper lip’s range of motion. When the upper lip cannot flare or move freely, a baby cannot maintain a proper, efficient latch during feeding.

Causes, Prevalence, and Crucial Distinctions

Lip ties are classified as congenital, meaning the condition is present from birth. While the exact cause is currently unknown, some experts believe it may be related to genetics and run in families.

It might surprise you to learn that lip ties are quite common, potentially affecting up to 10% of babies. The condition is generally considered to be more common in boys.

Lip Tie vs. Tongue Tie

It is important to note that lip ties and tongue ties are separate conditions, even though they are both caused by restrictive oral tissue and often appear together.

• A lip tie restricts the movement of the upper lip.
• A tongue tie (ankyloglossia) restricts the movement of the tongue because the lingual frenulum underneath is too short or tight.

Often, if we find one tie, we carefully check for the other, as the two frequently co-exist.

Severity Levels (A Note on Classification)

While the diagnosis hinges on functional impairment, professionals sometimes classify lip ties into four levels of severity:

1. Level 1 (Mucosal): The tie is small and inserts into the attached gum tissue.
2. Level 2 (Gingival): The tie attaches near the base of the gum line.
3. Level 3 (Papillary): The tie attaches at the gum line and may extend into the gum tissue between the teeth.
4. Level 4 (Papilla Penetrating): The tie connects deep into the tissue on the roof of the mouth.

It is crucial to remember this: the severity level of the tie does not always correlate to the severity of the symptoms. A Level 1 tie might cause major feeding struggles, while a Level 3 tie might be asymptomatic. We treat the symptoms, not just the appearance.

Signs and Symptoms: Recognizing the 5 Key Indicators

Recognizing a lip tie can be challenging because the symptoms often mimic other common infant issues, like colic or general fussiness. We look at a full range of signs—those affecting the baby, those affecting the nursing parent, and those that emerge later in toddlerhood.

A. In Infants: Focused on Feeding Difficulties

Lip ties primarily interfere with a baby’s ability to flange their upper lip outward to create an effective seal on the breast or bottle. This restriction leads to inefficient milk transfer and a host of frustrations.

1. Difficulty Latching and Frustration The baby struggles to latch correctly and may frequently lose suction or take frustrating breaks during feeding. Because they are working so hard without getting enough milk, babies may seem constantly hungry or require incredibly long feeding sessions, often exceeding 30 to 45 minutes.

2. Loss of Suction and Gassiness A hallmark symptom is making a distinct clicking sound while feeding. This clicking indicates that the baby is losing suction due to an improper seal. Since the seal is broken, the baby swallows excessive amounts of air. Swallowing too much air leads directly to excessive gas, pronounced fussiness, symptoms often mistaken for colic, or even air-induced reflux.

3. Poor Weight Gain or Slow Growth Inefficient milk transfer is perhaps the most serious consequence. Because the baby cannot draw milk effectively, they are not consuming the necessary calories. This often results in poor weight gain or slow growth, which pediatricians carefully monitor. For many parents, this is the primary reason they first seek professional help.

4. Oral Discomfort and Visible Signs We often observe blisters on the upper lip of a baby with a lip tie. This happens because the tight lip tissue rubs against the feeding source (breast or bottle) rather than flanging out comfortably.

B. In Nursing Mothers

When a baby cannot latch properly due to a lip tie, the mother’s body often pays the price, too. This is why we focus on whole-family wellness.

1. Pain Beyond Normal Adjustment Severe pain, bleeding, or cracked nipples are common complaints from mothers. Pain should not be an assumed part of breastfeeding; it is often a critical sign that the baby’s latch is shallow or incorrect.

2. Milk Supply Issues and Breast Health Because the baby is unable to stimulate the breast fully and efficiently remove milk, mothers may experience issues such as painful engorgement, frequent blocked milk ducts, or even mastitis. These conditions compromise milk supply and can lead to prematurely ending the breastfeeding journey.

C. In Toddlers and Older Children: Future Complications

While the most urgent problems relate to infant feeding, an unaddressed lip tie can lead to difficulties as your child grows and develops their permanent dentition.

1. Oral Hygiene and Movement Difficulties The restrictive nature of the tie makes it difficult for a child to move their upper lip fully, which can affect simple motions like smiling. More significantly, it causes challenges with brushing. Food bits and milk frequently get stuck between the upper lip and the gums because the parent cannot easily lift the lip to clean the upper front teeth.

2. Dental Health Risks Difficulty cleaning the upper front teeth is a major concern. When food bits and trapped milk remain in contact with the gum line, there is an increased likelihood of tooth decay in the upper front teeth. The chronic tension from the tie can also contribute to gum recession in that area due to bacterial buildup.

3. Structural Issues A very tight lip tie can cause a noticeable gap, known as a diastema, between the two upper front teeth. This happens because the frenulum tissue extends down into the gum line.

4. Speech and Diet Challenges In older children, lip ties can sometimes contribute to speech difficulties or articulation problems. The restricted lip movement can interfere with the proper formation of sounds, especially those requiring lip engagement, such as the B, P, and M sounds. Furthermore, some children may experience trouble eating certain foods because their lip cannot move enough to clean a spoon or position food properly for chewing. This can sometimes lead to picky eating habits, creating another layer of parental stress.

Exposing the Myths: What Parents Need to Know

When you start researching lip ties, you will encounter a lot of conflicting information. As your partner in creating healthy, happy smiles, I want to clear up some common misconceptions.

Here are the facts that empower us to make the best decisions for your child’s whole-child wellness.

A. Myth 1: It Will Go Away On Its Own

• Fact: Lip ties rarely fix themselves. While very minor cases may become less severe as the child grows, the majority will not resolve without intervention. If the tie is causing functional issues—especially feeding problems—early correction is strongly recommended to support proper infant development. Waiting often means the baby spends months struggling and developing incorrect feeding habits.

B. Myth 2: All Lip Ties Require Treatment

• Fact: This is one of the most important facts to understand. The majority of lip ties do not require intervention. Treatment is only necessary if the tie is causing specific, observable, and documented problems. These problems might include severe weight gain issues, persistent difficulties with brushing, or interference with permanent teeth positioning. If the tie is restrictive but not causing symptoms, we usually recommend monitoring it.

C. Myth 3: The Gap Between Teeth Means It Must Be Cut

• Fact: While a noticeable gap (diastema) between the upper front teeth can be a symptom of a lip tie, this alone does not warrant immediate treatment. Often, the gap naturally closes when the permanent teeth emerge. A dental professional will usually monitor the gap through early childhood and reserve correction until later if the tie is affecting gum health or oral function, but not solely based on the space.

D. Myth 4: The Procedure Instantly Fixes All Problems

• Fact: While the physical release of the restrictive tissue is instantaneous, clipping the frenulum is not a simple cure-all. If a baby has struggled to latch for weeks or months, they have developed incorrect, compensatory movement patterns. Therefore, proper therapy and guidance are often needed post-procedure to "retrain" the baby to latch or move their lips and tongue correctly. We believe in a comprehensive approach, working closely with lactation consultants and therapists to ensure full success.

Diagnosis: Seeking a Professional Assessment

If you suspect your little one may have a lip tie based on the symptoms we have discussed, seeking a professional evaluation is the crucial next step. This is where a team approach truly helps.

A. Who to Consult

Parents should consult a medical professional with expertise in infant oral function:

• Pediatrician: They often monitor weight gain and overall health.
• Lactation Consultant: If you are breastfeeding, they can assess latch and milk transfer efficiency.
• Pediatric Dentist Specializing in Oral Ties: A board certified pediatric dentist, like myself, has the expertise and state-of-the-art technology to accurately diagnose the tie and perform the release if necessary.

B. The Assessment Process

Diagnosis is based entirely on function. We determine how tight the tissue is and whether it restricts movement enough to affect core functions like feeding, speech development, or hygiene.

During the assessment, we will:

1. Observe Feeding: If possible, we observe the baby feeding to check for clinical signs such as a poor latch, clicking sounds, spitting milk, or signs of inefficiency.
2. Examine the Frenulum: We gently lift the upper lip to look underneath and visually assess the frenulum, checking for thickness, tightness, and its insertion point.
3. Discuss Symptoms: We talk extensively with you about the symptoms you are experiencing, focusing on the functional impact of the tie.

Treatment Pathways: From Monitoring to Frenectomy

Once a diagnosis is made, the treatment path is tailored to your child’s needs and the severity of their symptoms. We always prioritize the least invasive and most effective options first.

A. The Decision to Treat

If we find a lip tie but the symptoms are mild or non-existent, a wait-and-see approach is often appropriate. We will monitor the situation carefully as your child grows. However, treatment is most strongly recommended when it is necessary to resolve a clear, ongoing functional problem.

B. Non-Surgical Support (Starting Steps)

Often, before we consider a surgical procedure, we recommend complementary therapies that can help improve function and compensation:

C. Surgical Release: The Laser Frenectomy

If non-surgical efforts fail, or if severe symptoms are present—such as major weight gain issues, chronic pain for the mother, or significant difficulty with oral hygiene—a minor procedure called a frenectomy is recommended.

1. What is a Frenectomy? A frenectomy is a simple, fast procedure that releases the tight frenulum tissue. This allows the lip to move more freely, enabling a better latch or improved lip mobility for cleaning and speaking.

2. Ideal Timing Some experts suggest the ideal timing for the procedure is either before one year old (to alleviate feeding issues quickly) or potentially later, between approximately 4–6 years old, if the tie is impacting permanent teeth or gum health. Early intervention helps prevent months of feeding stress.

3. Why We Use Laser Technology At Dr. Leslie Jacobs Pediatric Dentistry in Lafayette, we pride ourselves on utilizing State-Of-The-Art Technology to ensure the best possible experience for your child. We perform the frenectomy using a specialized laser.

The use of advanced laser technology offers tremendous advantages over traditional cutting methods:

• Minimally Invasive Treatment: The procedure is incredibly quick and requires no stitches.
• Faster Healing: The laser seals blood vessels and nerve endings as it works, resulting in improved comfort and significantly faster healing time.
• Enhanced Safety: The precise nature of the laser ensures accuracy and enhanced safety for your little one.

We want dental care to be fun, comfortable, and anxiety-free. Using a laser allows us to treat this common condition with the gentleness and speed that parents and children deserve.

Post-Procedure Success: The Essential Role of Aftercare

While the laser procedure is fast, the work does not end when you walk out the door. The post-procedure aftercare is absolutely mandatory for long-term success.

A. Immediate Relief and Results

Many parents report immediate relief and improvement. We frequently hear stories of better latching, improved comfort, longer sleep periods, and reduced clicking—sometimes even on the same day as the procedure. These success stories are why we love what we do!

B. Preventing Reattachment: The Vigorous Stretches

The mouth is the fastest healing area of the human body. This rapid healing is wonderful, but it means that the frenulum tissue can quickly reattach and grow back together, causing the recurring issues we worked to resolve.

This is why vigorous aftercare is mandatory.

Post-procedure care consists of specific, gentle stretches that you, the parent, must perform multiple times a day. These stretches keep the surgical site open and prevent the tissue from fusing back together. We will walk you through every step of this process until you feel confident.

C. Re-training the Latch and Function

Even after the restriction is physically released, some babies need time and guidance to adjust. If a baby spent months compensating for the tight lip, they may have an established habit of latching incorrectly, leading to a shallow latch even with the new range of motion. Working with a lactation consultant or a myofunctional therapist is essential in this phase to help your baby "retrain" their oral muscles and achieve the deep, effective latch they need.

Diagnosing and treating a lip tie is like replacing a faulty steering wheel in a car. The laser frenectomy gives you a new, functional wheel that allows free movement. But after the procedure, your baby needs physical therapy—the daily stretches and exercises—to unlearn the old, compensatory driving habits and properly steer with the fully functional new wheel. If they skip the therapy, the car might technically be fixed, but the driving experience will remain difficult, and the issue might resurface.

Conclusion: Supporting Your Child’s Healthy Growth

We understand that dealing with feeding or developmental challenges can be daunting. Please know that you are not alone. As your compassionate and experienced partner in dental care, we are here to help.

A. Lifelong Implications of Untreated Ties

While not every lip tie needs intervention, those that cause functional problems should be addressed. Untreated ties can lead to long-term struggles affecting speaking clarity, difficulty eating certain foods, pervasive dental health risks, and overall oral development. Early action is key to preventing these future challenges.

B. Your Next Steps for a Healthy Smile

You know your baby best. If you recognize the signs—whether they are feeding struggles, nipple pain, or even difficulty brushing an older child’s teeth—seeking a professional evaluation is the most effective way to ensure successful treatment.

As a Board Certified Pediatric Dentist, I provide specialized, comprehensive care to assess and treat oral ties using state-of-the-art laser technology right here in Lafayette. We are dedicated to making dental visits a positive experience, turning fears and tears into cheers in a fun and safe environment. We truly treat your children as if they were our own.

Let's work together to create healthy, happy smiles!

Contact our office today for a thorough evaluation and personalized guidance. Our highly trained and friendly staff are ready to help your family thrive.

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